Race out to the living room and
curl up in the biggest, comfiest chairs in the world.
Matching pjs, hair messy, and
volume on low, low, low.
Nana’s treat cupboard has cap’n crunch
and you chomp through a bowl and a half,
cereal cutting the roof of your smile,
until nana comes out and the channel changes to
to trading spaces and while you were out and what not to wear.
Nana is better at decorating than most of these people you decide,
and she doesn’t need a camera crew to transform a room.
There’s nowhere else you’d rather be
at six am on a weekend at Papa and Nana’s.
—–
Six am on a weekend at Papa and Nana’s finds you
racing around the basement,
throwing everything you might need
for the next eight months of your life
back into the suitcases you’ve emptied all over their floor.
Four years, and never a flight missed
(nana’s watch never lies).
If you’re not fifteen minutes early you’re late,
so be sure to leave enough time for
one cup of tea and two cups of coffee,
enough time for saying bye to the best parts of home
at the airport Tim Hortons.
—-
At the stonetown Tim Hortons Papa knows everyone
(And everyone knows Papa).
He always says hi to at least three people,
and introduces his girls:
Here for the weekend
Here to be spoiled
Here to split a sprinkle donut
right down the middle.
‘While you’re here,’ asks the man at at the cash,
‘Would the girls like to come back to the kitchen and
decorate a gingerbread man?’
Heaven on earth is a Tim Hortons kitchen
with vats of icing and buckets of rainbow sprinkles.
You leave with smiles
as big as the ones painted on your gingerbread
Papa always knows just the right thing to say
to the people behind the counter.
—-
The people behind the counter
at Godfather’s pizza
are the scariest people you’ve ever met.
“Here’s the money” says Papa in the car outside,
“Now go get our supper, Nana’s waiting.”
Your sister already had to call to order the pizza,
stammering out her request for a family meal deal
extra cheese, not too much sauce, with one Ceasar salad.
Now, your chin trembles and tears pool in your eyes.
Papa sits calmly in the front seat, heater running,
unmoved by the terrified mess next to him
and you know there’s no going back home
without the pizza.
Hand on the door handle, Papa speaks, says,
“You’re brave. you can do this.”
—-
“You’re brave. You can do this,”
you mutter to yourself,
standing at the top of a cliff and staring
out across the quarry back to where
Papa and your big sister stand on the grass.
Look down at your
toes on the limestone,
It’s a long way down.
All you have to do is
be brave for three more seconds,
hold your breath and
remember everything you learned
about floating in Aunt Ruth’s pool.
You your Dad your Papa,
three generations off this one ledge.
Deep breath
one,
two,
three,
splash.
—-
The splash of the waves against the beach
Is the background music to every summer memory.
Waves filling in the the silence around the card table
when you crawl out of bed in the middle of the night and
are allowed to shuffle
for the grownup card games you don’t understand.
Waves singing you to sleep when your eyes can’t stay open
any longer reading Archie comics under your built-in nightlight.
Waves keeping you company on long beach walks
while you learn how to find sea glass, find peanut butter rocks,
find elderberries, find sandbars, find the right doohickey in the toolshed,
find treasures where you least expect them
–
Nana is the queen of finding treasures in unexpected places.
She keeps all of them safe in secret boxes,
and pulls them out on snowday afternoons.
The tiniest polly pockets and dad’s old tonka trucks,
crystal glasses and delicate china,
necklaces and rings with stories more precious than their stones, and
clothes she found at sally ann – the perfect size, the perfect colour.
She puts most of her treasures away for the next time but still somehow
sends you out the door with a new (old) purse full of cookies
And a new (old) coat that she mended before fixing it up in the warsh
And a new (old) travel mug from your favourite musical full of tea
And a stick of butter wedged under your arm
“There was a sale!”
Nana says
“I didn’t want you girls to go without”
–
“We can’t have you girls going without breakfast,”
say Papa and Nana as they meet you both at Cora’s
With a friend and friend and a friend of a friend tagging along
The best part of the waiter’s day is making Papa proud
(you can relate).
Leave the table full of sugar and enough breakfast for the week
and more love than you know what to do with.
You haven’t seen this much food since
Nana packed your lunches for a field trip
Two sandwiches, two Jellos,
and two packets of dunkaroos
Made all the more delicious because you knew
All of the magical snacks would transform into celery and shreddies
When your parents come back home
–
“When your parents come back home
What are they going to say?”
Nana asks, staring somewhat desperately
At your black, black hair
And your pink, pink room
And your ankle (probably not broken, just sprained).
Your rebellious phase that lasted exactly one weekend
when mom and dad weren’t home to ask questions.
“Maybe you should call to warn them” says Nana
Papa just laughs,
but then he hands you the phone
–
You hold your phone in your hands
Listening to love crackling through a rhyming voicemail,
home showing up in
Nova Scotia Quebec London Buffalo Windsor St Catharines
through imessage and skype and facetime and portal
and facebook messenger and email forwards and late night phone calls.
“There once was a girl named bri who went to go live by the sea”
starts a voicemail,
“Give us a call when you’re done partying,”
it ends as you stare ruefully at your piles of homework
“and make sure you get home safe from wherever you are.”
Nana’s prayers and find my friends walk and drive and fly
Every mile next to you until
one,
two,
three A.M.
Keeping watch until
everyone is back where they should be.
–
You aren’t where you should be,
Nana is sitting in the passenger seat
and somehow, seventeen years later,
your hands are on the wheel.
Nana is quiet (maybe praying)
And for the next 45 minutes
you circle the Wescast parking lot
while she makes parallel parking sound
just as easy as folding a fitted sheet.
Which, to be clear, also isn’t easy
(for anyone who isn’t Nana).
Driving this car is nothing at all like
figure-eights on the lawnmower
no matter what Papa says.
—
No matter what Papa says,
you know he must like cats.
At least some cats.
At least Cleo.
You’ve seen the way she sits on his shoulder and
you try to get the tiny kittens tumbling in the grass to
stay on your shoulder, too, but
neither of you are good enough at sitting still
“Time to go!”
With a Dad’s cookie in hand,
Papa backs the old truck down the gravel driveway.
If you’re lucky it’s your turn to sit behind the wheel,
your hands on his,
windows down,
wind rushing in,
singing take me out to the ball game
top of your lungs.
“It’s the only song I know,” he says
—-
“It’s the only song I know,” he says
even though every year you
sit next to him on the big chairs in the living room
and you know that he could sing every word
to every song
from the Sound of Music.
But out of respect for Julie Andrews
everyone stays quiet and
welcomes in
another Christmas
—–
Another Christmas and
Papa and Nana remain the hardest people you know
to find a present for
“We don’t need anything!”
They say
“As long as we have you girls
And your mom
And your dad
(and maybe Jordan too, adds nana)
All around the table
What more could we ask for?”
And they’re right
you can’t imagine any Christmas
anywhere in the world
That could be better than this